How to Trust God When It Feels Like He Isn’t Listening

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You’ve prayed and prayed, but nothing is happening. I hear this all the time from my community members, so in today’s show, I’m sharing how to trust God when it feels like He isn’t listening.

You’re doing all the right things.

You pray, read scripture, go to church, and volunteer at a local ministry. And no matter what you do, it feels like God isn’t listening.

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Yeah, I’ve been there too, and it’s so incredibly frustrating. I mean, scripture teaches us that all we have to do is ask and He will give it to us.

Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.. Matthew 7:7-8 NLT

So why isn’t our Father listening?

Maybe you’ve thought…

  • Does God even know who I am?
  • Does He really care?
  • Maybe what I’ve learned in the Bible isn’t really for me.
  • I’ve prayed and prayed and nothing is happening.
  • How can I trust God when it feels like He isn’t listening?

If you’re nodding your head, saying, “Yes! That’s me,” then I’ve got you, my friend.

Trusting God in the waiting

In this episode, I’m sharing three things you need to understand when it comes to trusting God in the waiting.

We’ll dive into the Bible to uncover…

  • What we can learn about waiting from two people in the Bible.
  • What God’s perfect timing really means.
  • How to learn to trust His plan over ours.
  • What God is really doing while we wait.

So grab those earbuds and your favorite beverage and join me for How to Trust God When it Feels Like He Isn’t Listening.

How to Break Free from Prayer Perfection at-a-glance

  • 00:00 Welcome
  • 02:41 Waiting on God
  • 04:13 How to know if He’s listening
  • 08:05 Understanding His timing
  • 23:50 What you can do while you wait
  • 31:30 Wrapping Up

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